In a world where dating apps are flooded with profiles and expectations often meet reality in unpredictable ways, one man’s search for love has sparked both intrigue and skepticism.
Kevin, a 42-year-old single father, has taken a rather bold stance when it comes to romance, refusing to settle for anything less than perfection. His uncompromising attitude towards love led him to believe that he may be destined to be alone forever.
But is this the result of lofty standards, or is he simply striving for something that others might consider unattainable? Kevin’s story raises questions about the true nature of attraction, the limits of personal standards, and the sacrifices made in the pursuit of the ideal partner.
A single dad believes his refusal to date women he finds unattractive could lead to a lifetime of loneliness. Kevin, 42, is adamant that he won’t lower his standards when it comes to finding love. Insisting that he can only fall in love with someone who meets all of his criteria, he is determined to never settle for anything less than what he desires.
Kevin, a TikToker from Fife, Scotland, spoke to The Sun about his expectations in relationships. While most people wouldn’t want to commit to someone they aren’t sure about, Kevin’s standards are significantly higher than most. Physical appearance is key for him. “I’m not into ugly women,” he declared, adding, “I’m not Brad Pitt, but I know I can attract sensible women.”
Kevin has a specific vision of his ideal partner: long hair and a curly figure, although he doesn’t like ponytails. Admitting that it’s difficult to find someone who fits that description, he admits: “It’s harder to find someone if you’re just looking for a high-end look. Your search becomes much more demanding and other men are probably after them too. But I’m not willing to settle for second best. I know I might be alone for a while.”
Even though Kevin is currently in a relationship (as of 2023), he has had his share of dating experiences. He had a brief relationship with someone he met on TikTok in late 2022, but it ended after just a month.
Kevin, who goes by @boerboelblade2 on TikTok, explained that he doesn’t drink or meet women in traditional ways like going to pubs or bars. He also expressed dissatisfaction with dating apps, saying many potential matches don’t respond to him and those who do aren’t as attractive as he’d like.
“I’ve lowered my standards before and I didn’t enjoy it. I won’t do it again,” he said. Kevin is happy with his choice to remain single and hopes to eventually find the perfect partner. He is often asked why he is single even though he “looks decent” and has a steady income. He explained: “A lot of men are single because they choose to be and refuse to settle down. It’s a lifestyle choice.”
